Usage and Grammar

Q. I have always changed cf. to see since CMOS states that it means “to confer; compare.” Of course, I query whether the author really does mean “compare,” but the majority of the time they mean to say “see.” Someone tells me that their dictionary says it is often used to mean “see also.” This doesn’t seem right to me—it’s an abbreviation for a Latin term; how can a dictionary change an actual meaning?

Q. In my journalism days, I was taught that the following type of sentence is a non sequitur. I see it more and more these days. What do you think? “A software developer with fifteen years of experience, Sally’s passion is creating quality products.”

Q. I am now happily retired from a career in estate planning. Over the years, both clients and other practitioners have consistently used the word gift as a verb, as in “I want to gift my house to my daughter.” This seems awfully stilted. Is there something wrong with the word give?

Q. A number of my friends and colleagues now use invite as a noun, as in “send him an invite.” I think it’s pretty lazy usage when the perfectly good word invitation is available. Am I just an old crank who doesn’t like change?

Q. Our editing department is stumped! Would you say “There are an infinite amount of critical values” or “There is an infinite amount of critical values”?

Q. Recently a fellow editor and I had a discussion on the use of “whether or not” and when the “or not” is needed. I have always followed what’s stated in CMOS 5.250: “The ‘or not’ is necessary only when you mean to convey the idea ‘regardless of whether.’ ” Is the “or not” necessary in a construction like this, even if there are two alternatives? “You will need to plan, whether or not you have an existing design or you are starting from scratch.”

Q. My boss likes to dictate letters using what I refer to as declarative or emphatic speech: “She did go to the store and she did buy that hat. I did tell her that it was a lovely hat.” I have never seen text typed in this manner and generally edit it to “She went to the store and bought that hat. I told her that it was a lovely hat.” Which is correct?

Q. When did calendar come into common US use as a verb? I always find it difficult to obey when asked to calendar an upcoming meeting, because I hear calender (comes from cylinder), the act of moving paper between two rollers to smooth its surface.

Q. I’ve been coming across this construction using the verb help: helping our patients be home for the holidays; knowing that we have helped so many people be home for the holidays. I recognize the usage; it’s common in my region. But I’ve been recommending to be home as the grammatically unimpeachable (and to my ear better) choice. I haven’t found a discussion of the matter anywhere. I would appreciate a recommendation.

Q. Is it proper writing to start a sentence using a coordinating conjunction in a quotation? “Her dress is ugly,” said Jane. “But please don’t tell her I said that.”

Q. I was taught that one cannot have a “first annual” of anything—that “inaugural” or “first-ever” were the appropriate terms. Lately, though, I have seen some college websites indicating that “first annual” is now acceptable. What is the CMOS ruling?