Pronouns

Q. Is it equally acceptable to say “My friends and I went to the concert” and “I and my friends went to the concert”?

A. No; the second construction is popular but not yet considered proper.

[This answer relies on the 18th edition of CMOS (2024) unless otherwise noted.]

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